Counselling for Individuals and Couples
Choosing Extraordinary Relationships

Can you learn to have a great relationship?
Can you be yourself in the company of others?

You are in a relationship. You want it to be the best it can be. Here are some optimisation tips for great relationships.

There are over seven billion people in the world. My experience at the Couples Clinic (choosingchange) Counselling Sydney CBD, shows me that each individual and each couple seek specific and personal attention to help them achieve extraordinary relationships.

  • Does it surprise you that you may not have as much choice as you believe when picking a partner?
  • Do you believe your partner should want to have sex and have desire in your relationship?
  • Do you ask your partner to just “do it” promising or assuming “You’ll enjoy it in time.”?
  • Do you think being in love and having a partner is fate, we’re- just-meant-to-be?… or…
  • Do you think it might take a bit of work to find and keep a partnership solid and rewarding?

If you said yes to to any of the above, then choosingrelationships might be for you.

Are Relationships Counselling and Marriage Counselling the same thing? Yes. For the purposes of clarity the above words are used throughout this site.

What works in couples counselling

Finding out what works and what does not work is often the first step in having a great relationship. Couples Counselling and Psychotherapy for Individuals and Couples can offer you the chance to see how differently your relationship can be with some knowledge and effort.

  • If you think it might be a communication issue then maybe it would be worth finding out better ways to communicate.
  • If you think your partner does not understand how you feel… learning to have and show empathy may be the answer.
  • If you want better sex and more of it, try a little tenderness, try to improve your intimacy.
  • Do you find it difficult to get close to people? Does your relationship suffer because of this?
  • Conflict and trust problems is sometimes about you … do you have difficulty with these issues?
  • Learning how to trust is sometimes difficult... if your experiences are not based on trust… including during your childhood.
  • Sense of self and self-esteem are integral to having a good relationship… knowing self… do you know yourself?

When you have and show empathy toward your partner you are setting the scene for your partner to return the compliment.

By Philip Johnson Google

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